I've wrote my name in wet cement, been naughty at a drive in movie, finally fell asleep with someone that I love, swam bottom naked in a public swimming pool under the lifeguard, toilet papered the principal’s house. Peed off a hotel balcony in Daytona, played strip poker in a friends basement in my high school years with her parents upstairs playing TV bingo and tipped cows [it’s not as easy as you think].
Saturday, July 28, 2007
It was an accident?
The constant use of the word ‘accident', especially by journalists, to refer even to those crashes caused by the most blatant dangerous driving seems to me one reason why we all seem to be in denial of the realities of our ‘car culture'.
'Accident' has a number of connotations that a more neutral word such as ‘crash' does not. Common phrases include ‘Accidents happen'. This implies that they are inevitable and that there is nothing that can be done to avoid them, which when it comes to road deaths is just not true. Another common phrase people use is ‘It was just an accident' or even ‘I didn't mean it, it was just an accident'. The subtext to this phrase is, of course, ‘It was not my fault' or ‘I refuse to accept any responsibility for what has happened'. [A universal problem with road crashes where everyone feels someone else must be to blame]. In short, the overuse of the word ‘accident' seems to encourage the general view that no one is to blame for road deaths and injuries.
Some time ago, I emailed radio 680 about this and ‘Sally Traffic' [as to say] did me the courtesy of Emailing me back. I was told that the use of the word ‘accident' was not the CRTC’s policy but that they would never use ‘crash' as she believed the word is ‘sensationalist'. [And of course we mustn't be ‘sensationalist' about anything as mundane as road deaths must we...?]. It also continued to explain that some commercial stations do have a policy of not using the word ‘crash', especially in the mornings, as it is felt this is more likely to upset listeners about to start their day.
There are plenty of other example of ‘the culture of denial' being expressed in language. For example, another common phrase is ‘The car went out of control' when what is really meant is ‘The driver lost control of the car'. We also say such things as ‘The pedestrian was killed by the car', even when they have been run down on a pedestrian crossing and what we really mean is ‘The pedestrian was killed by the car driver'.
Strangely enough cyclists seem to have much less problem calling ‘a spade a spade' and the word ‘crash' is used in preference by most cycling enthusiasts when they describe racing cyclists ‘coming a box of tricks'. It even sounds a bit odd to say ‘the cyclist has had an accident on the descent'. Almost universally, commentators will just say, ‘The cyclist has crashed' without this been considered to be ‘sensationalist'. Then again cyclists are not living in denial of the realities of the ‘car culture'... The philosopher Wittgenstein said that ‘the limit of my language is the limit of my world'. Given this if we are to make people less accepting of road deaths do we need to challenge the comforting language that the upholders of the car culture use to put a less threatening spin on the harsh realities of road deaths [And by drivers to avoid having to accept individual responsibility]? Or is a simple word such as ‘crash' really ‘sensationalist'?
Collision seems to be a good word.
Teresa.
Thursday, July 26, 2007
Remember this?
MORAL: Preparation.
Aesop’s Fables all involve animals and nature etc. and it’s quite strange that these very short, seemingly children’s stories written over 200 years ago are still very relevant today to children and adults alike and are even studied by English Literature students world wide at Universities today.
Teresa.
Tuesday, July 24, 2007
Lover of Mine
Funny, I washed the windows today and once again I found myself still avoiding a patch of nose prints left behind by a spirit named Chewy.
I am a dreamer and it's my dreams you have. As you move on, remember me. I’ve felt you inside me, I've seen you smile. I've watched you sleeping, smelled your breath as you exhaled, listened to your heart. I don't wanna end up alone, nobody does. I'd spend a lifetime with you. You know my fears and what really makes me laugh and because of that, I'll always love you. I still hold your hand in mine when I'm sleeping. I will bear my soul in time. Goodbye my lover, my friend, my Darling. You have been the only one for me.